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A ‘dry orgasm’ is when a man reaches sexual climax but does not ejaculate – no fluid emerges from the penis.

When a man does this, it’s often the case that his genitals simply ‘run out’ of seminal fluid, and the orgasm simply doesn’t produce any liquid at all.

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This can happen on the second climax, the third or the fourth. But when there’s no more fluid there, the orgasm will be dry and the man will not ejaculate.

This is the case for young men, though. In older men it can often mean prostrate problems.

That’s what I got from the sites :3

~FapGuru

omg that’s funny. The lipsticked egg, I mean. 

Okay, the clit is the part of the women’s body that has the most nerve endings (and actually has more nerve endings than any male body part as well). It’s not the only way to get an orgasm, but it’s what swells when females get turned on and is the easier way to get one. It’s an organ that is, at least as far as I know but I could be wrong, purely for sexual pleasure. 

The thing about male and female bodies is that our sexual organs are basically the same before our genetic sex is decided while we’re fetuses (feti?), it just changes as our sex is determined. For example, we all have ovaries for a while (well, things like them) but then they become external for boys and stay inside for girls. So the clit is basically the head of a penis for a girl. But while we refer to that little bundle of nerves as the clit, it’s actually legs that stretch out from nub that can have similar effects when stimulated.

Anyways, for basics, here’s where it is.

So small, but, like I said, it swells when we became aroused, basically like a literal “ladyboner”.

Now to get started, my advice would be to find out what turns you on. For me mine almost always involves reading smut of some kind because I’m not visual so I can’t look at pictures or fantasize something and get turned on. And once you find something that gets you wet and tingling, start playing around down there. I started first with touches above my underwear because it freaked me out to touch myself actually inside the lips of my labia, but you might be able to go straight for that, it depends on the person and no way/feeling is wrong at all. You can just go straight for trying to masturbate or you can do that a few times first to get used to it, like I said, either is fine, or any variation of that. 

When I first started masturbating, I didn’t know how to handle the sensitivity of touching my clit right on, which makes sense since it’s the most sensitive part of your body. And since each person has different sexual preferences, and I mean like kinks and touches, some might like harder presses but some might like lighter ones. I would caution about pressing too hard, however, just because I know guys that masturbate with the “death grip” have trouble orgasming during sex because of that, and while I’ve read nothing like that about females, it seems like it could definitely happen and most women have trouble coming during sex anyways, so why risk it? I honestly don’t think there’s much research/word-of-mouth on it from the women’s side since it’s so taboo for women to touch themselves, but that’s another discusison.

Anyways, when you feel ready, try stimulating it through touch. Try experimenting with which touches and motions make you feel better. Also, feel free and don’t get embarrassed to use lube; your vagina gets wet and you can use that, but it may not be enough, and that’s not your fault.

So start with that. Don’t get frustrated if you can’t get yourself to come or if it takes a while, because it takes most everyone out there a while to finally orgasm, and trust me, you’ll know what one feels like. But just in case you’re doubting it, know that an orgasm is basically a series of muscle spasms. Each girl can describe their orgasm in a different way, but in basic body terms you’re going to tense up and then feel relaxed. Orgasms release endorphins so you’ll probably be happy and with other chemicals released you might also feel sleepier. 

Then from there or even while you’re still experimenting with masturbation, try seeing what other things you like happening while you masturbate, like if you like having one hand rubbing your nipples, for example, or a finger in your mouth. Moan if you want to; try different positions; do whatever you want. And also try getting something that vibrates, whether a true vibrator or the end of a vibrating toothbrush or anything like that, because even though some women prefer orgasms through their hands, there are certain parts of the clitoris that are stimulated more by vibrations, so it’s worth a try.

And definitely once you start getting more experienced, try edging. It’s when you let yourself get really close to the edge and then stop touching yourself before you can come and cool off for a little bit, around like 30 seconds or so, and then start up again. Do that as long as you can stand it or even just once or twice, because the more you hold off on that and build up, the greater the orgasm.

That’s where I’ll stop now, but come back if I didn’t answer something or if you have more questions. :)

~FG

P.S. I’d suggest for your first time experimenting that you lay on your back with your legs apart. Bending your legs might help, too, but it isn’t necessary. :)